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In our fast paced and increasingly chaotic world, the wellbeing of our souls are often neglected. But Bremerton UMC believes that our souls deserve to be cared for—we believe that our physical, emotional, mental and spiritual well-being is an essential part of God’s plan for humanity. God’s desire for human flourishing is found in every part of the Bible, and so we look to these ancient stories, poems, and letters to guide our unique journeys towards greater self understanding and personal transformation.
In “Soulcare: Help for Heavy Times,” our worship services and engaging messages are designed to bring healing and support to your weekly rhythm. Each Sunday gathering is built around finding community, raising awareness about mental health conditions and needs, and growing in faith together–no matter your life experience or current situation. Every week, we’ll discover how to navigate the challenges of our culture with compassion, and how God is with us every step of the way.
For more information about the topics that we will cover and for additional support options in our local community, use the resources and links below. To connect with a member of our pastoral team for emergency or ongoing care, click here.
Anxious For Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World - Max Lucado
- Summary: We all experience anxiety, but we don’t have to let worry and fear control our lives. Anxious for Nothing, from New York Times bestselling author, Max Lucado, provides a roadmap for coping with and healing from anxiety.
The Answer to Anxiety: How to Break Free from the Tyranny of Anxious Thoughts and Worry - Joyce Meyer
- Summary: What if there was a way to put a stop to your worrying before it steals your peace of mind? In The Answer to Anxiety, Joyce Meyer reveals truth from God’s Word that shows us how to focus on God when we’re feeling unsettled.
Grieve, Breathe, Receive: Finding a Faith Strong Enough to Hold Us - Steve Carter
- Summary: In this book, Steve is more personal and vulnerable than he's ever been, and by doing so he encourages all of us to: Allow ourselves the necessary time and space to properly GRIEVE what is, what you thought it was going to be and how key people let you down rather than fill our days with activities and commitments that distract us. Slow down to BREATHE in God's grace, His peace, and His love . . . and to learn how to exhale all the negativity, pain, resentment, and bitterness we carry within us. Be open to RECEIVE all the lessons, surprises, and healing God knows we need for every part of us to be made whole.
Soulbroken: A Guidebook for Your Journey Through Ambiguous Grief - Stephanie Sarazin
- Summary: Most people will experience this type of traumatic event over the course of their lifetime, yet the complications of these situations often leave grievers feeling alienated or ashamed. Soulbroken is a guidebook that recognizes this often-misunderstood grief, validates the unique challenges posed by its ambiguity, and champions tools for healing. In it, Stephanie Sarazin presents the ambiguous grief process, offering insights to help readers better understand the nuances of their grief experience when a loved one is not lost to death.
Out of the Cave: Stepping into the Light When Depression Darkens What You See - Chris Hodges
- Summary: In Out of the Cave, Chris Hodges uses Elijah's life to show us that everyone is susceptible to depression. Even when we're walking closely with God, we can still stumble and get lost in the wilderness of tangled emotions. But we don't have to stay there, because we serve a God who meets us in the darkness.
Hurting Yet Whole: Reconciling Body and Spirit in Chronic Pain and Illness - Liuan Huska
- Summary: Countering a Gnosticism that pits body against spirit, Huska takes us on a journey of exploring how healing is not an escape from the limits of the body, but becoming whole as souls in bodies and bodies with souls. As chronic pain forces us to pay attention to our bodies' vulnerability, we come to embrace the fullness of our broken yet beautiful bodies. She helps us redefine what it means to find healing and wholeness even in the midst of ongoing pain.
Healing What's Within: Coming Home to Yourself and to God When You're Wounded, Weary, and Wandering - Chuck DeGroat
- Summary:If you’re like many of us, you carry a weight of buried pain. Despite looking put together on the outside, you feel secretly fractured within. While you appear strong and resilient on the outside, inside a storm brews of all the ways you’ve been hurt or harmed...In Healing What’s Within, therapist and professor Chuck DeGroat invites you on a compassionate journey inward to return and retune to the life God created you to live.
The Hem of His Garment: Reaching Out to God When Pain Overwhelms - Dr. Michelle Bengston
- Summary: Drawing on her own experience of chronic pain and her years as a board-certified clinical neuropsychologist, Dr. Michelle Bengtson provides a countercultural perspective on pain. Offering hope without any false promises or empty platitudes, Dr. Bengtson unwraps the complex emotional aspects of dealing with pain. She gives you permission to question God, helps you identify the lies you've believed about your pain, and reorients your perception based on the truth of God's Word.
Why Am I Feeling This?: A Teen's Guide to Freedom from Anxiety and Depression - David Murray
- Summary: In this companion guide to his book for parents Why Is My Teenager Feeling Like This?, pastor and counselor David Murray introduces you to the personal accounts of eighteen teens who have struggled with different types of anxiety or depression. This guide will help you discover not only the common causes but also the keys to unlock their chains. By utilizing God-given truths and tactics, you can experience new liberty, peace, and joy in your life.
The Kids Book of Worries: Understanding Anxiety and Managing Feelings - Catherine Stephenson & Jenny Stephenson
- Summary: Is your child struggling with worry or fear about everyday situations? Whether it’s starting a new school, making friends, or facing the unknown, anxiety can feel overwhelming for both kids and their caregivers. This supportive, interactive book is here to help. Designed for children aged 4-10, it gently guides them through understanding their emotions and offers practical, effective ways to manage anxiety.
Everywhere, Still: A Book about Loss, Grief, and the Way Love Continues - M.H. Clark
- Summary: Everywhere, Still is a book about missing someone. It's a book about loss and grief--whether that loss is permanent or temporary. And it's a reminder that there is always a way to stay close with the people who are biggest in our hearts, no matter how far across space and time they may be.
When Someone You Love Has Dies: Talking to Young Children About Death - Stephanie Seidler & Robin Katz
- Summary: When Someone You Love Has Died is an award-winning, heartfelt, and compassionate children's picture book that gently addresses the topic of death and the experiences that come with it.
Some Days: A Tale of Love, Ice Cream, and My Mom's Chronic Illness - Julie Stamm
- Summary: Warm and uplifting, Some Days is the perfect story to share with your child about life with multiple sclerosis―or any chronic illness. Although some days are fast and some are slow, Rosie and Wyatt fill each one with love, excitement, and fun . . . not to mention ice cream!
- Spirituality and Chronic Illness: A Grounded Conversation with Matthew Morse, LMHC: The Chronic Illness Therapist Podcast (Episode 28)
- Dealing with Anxiety: Theology and Therapy Podcast (Season 1, Episode 10)
- The Soul in Depression: The On Being Podcast with Krista Tippett, special guests Parker Palmer, Andrew Solomon, and Anita Barrows
- Breaking Free from Caregiver Overwhelm: Mindfulness and Self Care Tips: The Caregiver Podcast (Episode 228)
- Embodied Practices for Tending Grief with Camille Sapara Barton: The Grief Out Loud Podcast (Episode 293)
Book Resources - Adults:
- Untangle Your Emotions: Naming What You Feel and Knowing What to Do About It - Jennie Allen
- The Cry of the Soul: How Our Emotions Reveal Our Deepest Questions About God - Dr. Dan B. Allender & Dr. Tremper Longman III
- The Road to Self Awareness: A Therapy Book for Christians - Ian Murphy
- The Deeply Formed Life: Five Transformative Values to Root Us in the Way of Jesus - Rich Villodas
- Practices for Embodied Living: Experiencing the Wisdom of Your Body - Dr. Hillary L. McBride
- Sacred Self-Care: Daily Practices for Nurturing Our Whole Selves - Dr. Chanequa Walker-Barnes
- Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to be Spiritually Mature While Remaining Emotionally Immature - Peter Scazzero
Book Resources - Kids:
- Big, Big Feelings - Perry Emerson
- My Body Sends a Signal: Helping Kids Recognize Emotions & Express Feelings - Natalia Maguire
- The Friend I Need: Being Kind & Caring to Myself - Gabi Garcia
- My First Book of Emotions for Toddlers - Orlena Kerek MD
- I Can Do Hard Things: Mindful Affirmations for Kids - Gabi Garcia
Podcast Episodes:
- Learning Self Compassion and its Benefits - Inside Mental Health
- Mental Health 101: Terms to Know - Roadmap to Joy
- How to Be an Emotionally Present Parent - Roadmap to Joy
- Our God-Shaped Brains - Hidden Brain
- Where Do Feelings Come From? - Hidden Brain
Book Resources - Adults:
- In Search of You: How to Find Joy When Doing More Isn't Doing It Anymore - Kasey Compton
- Set Boundaries, Find Peace: A Guide to Reclaiming Yourself - Nedra Glover Tawwab
- Burnout Immunity: How Emotional Intelligence Can Help You Build Resilience and Heal Your Relationship with Work - Kandi Wiens
- Invitation to Solitude and Silence: Experiencing God's Transforming Presence - Ruth Haley Barton
- Strong Like Water: Finding the Freedom, Safety, and Compassion to Move Through Hard Things and Experience True Flourishing - Aundi Kolber
- Made for People: Why We Drift into Loneliness and How to Fight for a Life of Friendship - Justin Whitmel Earley
- The Heart of Anger: How the Bible Transforms Anger in our Understanding and Experience - Christopher Ash & Steve Midgley
Book Resources - Kids:
- I am Enough - Grace Byers
- Breathing is My Superpower: Mindfulness Book for Kids to Feel Calm and Peaceful - Alicia Ortega
- Roaring Mad Riley: An Anger Management Story for Kids - Allison Szczecinksi
- It's Okay to Not Be Okay: A Rhyming Read Aloud Story for Children About Feelings of Sadness and Loneliness - Emily Hayes
- The Essential Stress Management Handbook for Teens: A Teen's Guide to Mastering Natural Techniques to Stress Less, Accomplish More, and Live a Meaningful Life - Richard Meadows
Podcast Episodes:
- How to Tame Stress - The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos
- Maintaining Lasting Friendships, Episode 322 - Therapy for Black Girls Podcast
- Real Self Care with Dr. Pooja Lakshmin, Episode 173 - The Psychiatry Podcast with Dr. David Puder
- Anger: Getting Comfortable with Uncomfortable Emotions - The Man Enough Podcast with Liz Plank and Jamey Heath
- Let's Talk About...Loneliness, Episode 15 - The Let's Talk About Mental Health Podcast
Book Resources - Adults:
- The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love - Vienna Pharaon
- But What Will People Say: Navigating Mental Health, Identity, Love, and Family Between Cultures - Sahaj Kaur Kohli
- It Didn't Start With You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who You Are and How to End the Cycle - Mark Wolynn
- Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older - Alice Fryling and Leighton Ford
- Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life - Fr. Richard Rohr
- Mothers in Waiting: Healing and Hope for Those With Empty Arms - Crystal Bowman and Meghann Bowman
- Miscarried Hope: Journeying With Jesus through Pregnancy and Infant Loss - Rachel Lohman
Book Resources - Kids:
- Somebody Cares: A Guide for Kids Who Have Experienced Neglect - Susan Farber Straus and Claire Keay
- When Sad Scary Things Happen: Coping with Childhood Trauma - Erika Arnold-McEwan
- Trauma Recovery Workbook for Teens: Exercise to Process Emotions, Manage Symptoms and Promote Healing - Deborah Vinali
- Grandma, It's Me: A Children's Book about Dementia - YY Chan
- What's Inside Your Backpack? Coping Skills for Kids Who Have Experienced Trauma - Jessica Sinarski
Podcast Episodes:
- Ten Tips to Navigating Family Relationship: Therapy Talks, Episode 42 - Tiffany Roe
- Difficult Parents: Let's Talk About Mental Health, Episode 221
- Families: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly: Theology and Therapy, Season 6 Episode 3
- The Best Years of Your Life: The Hidden Brain Podcast
- Infertility and Mental: Coping with the Mental and Emotional Side Effects: This is Infertility Podcast, Episode 2
If you are experiencing a mental health emergency, please call 911 or go to your nearest hospital immediately. To reach mental health professionals at any hour of the day or night, call or text the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: simply dial 988 to access free, confidential care.